The Relationship Clinic
“Finally! Here’s how to have the relationship you’ve yearned for, even if you’ve tried and failed many times before, Guaranteed”
Dear friends?It’s tough out there. I get that.
It’s true that many thousands of couples will spend huge amounts of money on counselling, therapy and workshops in an endeavour to make their relationships special again.
A few (a very few) will succeed totally.
A few more will struggle along in unspoken sadness, neither experiencing the joy and delight of total success, nor the demoralizing impact of failure.
These people will live in “make do land”.
Most will fail. Frustratingly and repeatedly.
Perhaps you have already experienced one of these failures, after all, odds are that you have.
Maybe you know what it’s like to put a huge amount of effort into doing the right thing, trying to avoid an argument, trying to see your partner’s point of view, trying not to lose your cool, only to end up feeling frustrated and angry, again and again and again!
You do your very best, trying desperately to conjure up that sense of harmony and fulfilment that you used to feel in your relationship, but you end up in the same sad, hurtful, distressed emotional space regardless
Maybe you have suffered this sense of hopelessness and despair more than once. Maybe you feel that no matter how hard you try, you will never get it right, never say the right thing, never achieve that harmonious connection that you yearn for
Does any of this sound familiar?
Don’t feel bad – you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.
The reason for your frustration is not a lack of willpower, it’s not gullibility, and it’s not a moral failing on your part.
The reason why you can’t seem to achieve that easy, loving, relaxed kind of relationship is really simple, and even easy to fix. (believe me, yes it can be fixed).
What has held you back is simply that you, like most of us, will have developed ways of responding to upsetting events and emotional situations which are often unhelpful and sometimes downright disastrous.
Also, some of what you do at times may well trigger your partner’s own “stuff” which then means you are truly dealing with a dimension that has very little to do with the original issue.
This is what causes some couples to say “we seemed to start out arguing about (ABC) but after a while, we are just arguing, seemingly about everything”.
But please, please do not blame yourself or those you grew up with. You, like all of us, have simply been doing the best you can with the skills and experience that you have available to you at this time.
Think about that. Let it soak in.
What that means is that despite your best, most heartfelt efforts and good intentions, you may not have been getting the results that you could have, the results that you should have, or the results that you deserve.
Once we get a handle on that it can all be very different.
Now, Why Would You Listen to Me?
That’s a good question to be asking right now. After all, I could just be another source of confusing information.
But I’m not.
As mentioned in the video, my name is Hal Kennedy and I have spent almost 30 years working as a counsellor, therapist, educator, facilitator and mediator.
- I am a Member of New Zealand Association of Counsellors,
- The New Zealand Arbitrators and Mediators Institute.
- A Clinical Supervisor and an
- Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Mediator.
For almost 30 years I have been educating, coaching, supporting, encouraging and at times almost willing couples and individuals to do their relationships better.
And I will state categorically that with the right tools and the right guide
to keep you on track, you too can experience the level of caring,
compassion and fulfilment that you yearn for in your relationship.
It really is simple. But maybe not obvious. The truth is, though, every great accomplishment involves doing “something” effectively and if we don’t instinctively know how to do that “something”, then we need to learn how to do it. Sometimes that’s not obvious to us.
Sometimes we think others were just born with the ability to magically have a great relationship …
They weren’t.?At one time, virtually every couple started right where you are right now.?There’s no reason holding you back from the same kind of success that some others already enjoy.?And there’s even better news: you can enjoy that success faster, better, and easier than those who came before you.
Because we now have;
THE DIAMOND RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMME,
THE FIRST RELATIONSHIP STRENGTHENING PROGRAMME THAT COACHES COUPLES
TO FULLY UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER’S NEEDS AND DESIRES AND TO BE ABLE TO
TRULY BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER.
If You Are able to Converse (which I know you can). Then you too, can have the loving, fulfilling, caring relationship that you yearn for, and that at times you might almost ache for.
Maybe you feel like you’ve tried to make your relationship better before, but it has just never worked out. So you’re probably fairly sceptical about some kind of programme being the answer to the hurt, frustration, and disappointment that you may have experienced at times.
But this programme is different, because this programme involves a level of active coaching and support that virtually ensures success.
Right down to detailed coaching support such as,
“try doing it this way, instead of the way you usually do it” or?“try saying this, instead of rolling your eyes like you were going to do”.
When you participate in the Diamond Relationship Programme, you will :
Discover what you must do before you even think about trying to explain why you did what your partner is complaining about.
Understand exactly how to stay cool, calm and collected even in the most difficult conversations, even when you feel you are being criticised or verbally attacked, it’s not as tough as you think (and it’s probably different than you think, too)!
Learn the secret to getting your own way and having your partner feel good about it too. (and when you both feel good, your relationship will feel good too).
Identify how to feel safe, secure, loved and valued in your relationship. (almost the opposite to the usual advice which sometimes only makes things worse).
These are the same secrets I’ve used over the past almost thirty years, to enable an almost endless stream of couples to bring the love, the joy and the intimacy back into their relationships. And I know those relationship strategies will work for you too!
Here’s what other people have said about the Diamond Relationship Programme
Thank you for the counselling session yesterday, Hal. For the first time in what feels like (and what might actually be) months, I felt heard. I felt that I could share how I feel and that I could feel what I feel. With less fear of judgment & with fewer pre-emptions of chastisement or questioning, I slowly felt more open to simply be. I felt safer. And, even through my tears, I felt I could breathe a bit easier, relax and let my guard down. Surprisingly, with this feeling (that I was truly being heard and that my feelings mattered), I in turn felt I was more open to listen to, understand, and empathize with Alexey.Mari
Things are going really well with us and many of the communication tools you taught us are second nature now.
So a huge thanks to you Hal.Jenny McFadden
Thank you Hal – We laugh often as we pull out wee sayings and strategies from our sessions with you, and we chat about you often. Sam Silby
I really don’t think we’d be at this place in our lives and so excited about the future now. So glad that we decided that counselling was worth a shot. James
Hal is a relaxed and easy going counsellor. He taught us useful, practical techniques to resolve issues. After three sessions Kate and I got engaged to be married,
Thanks Hal.Warren Saky
Your help and guidance has been a real saving grace for us Hal, and we are so thankful. Sandra
Hal has been a fantastic counsellor for us. Not only has he given us strategies for use and help in our relationship, but has also given important life skills to help myself personally. He is an upbeat and modern counsellor, who knows how the world and relationships are in this current time, while also respecting traditional views. As soon as I met him I felt at ease. Hal is very easy to talk to and sympathetic also. Kate MacLean
Hal – I am looking forward to future sessions with you. I already feel lighter, freer, less scared, more hopeful, and more like the me that I have locked up behind a half-painted facade of indifference can come out — and that the underlying sadness, doubts and fear that pervades much of my everyday now will make way to the once-upon-a-time “me” who I have longingly missed — and who Alexey surely misses too: the happy, the silly, the caring, the loving, the (more) confident me.
Just think what it would be like to feel so delighted, excited and thankful, that you might be prompted to write your own note of appreciation? Imagine that sensation! Imagine how you would feel about your relationship.
When you commit to participating in The Diamond Relationship Programme
Here is exactly what you are going to get:
A blending of two of the world’s most powerful relationship therapy models that cut through the innate resistance to change that is there in us all.
The oh so simple way to build empathy and develop trust in any given situation.
The reason why you should never try to explain why you did something before you do this!
You will learn the strange truth about how not getting defensive, directly increases your ability to feel secure and stay safe, and you will learn how to do it easily!
The ability to stay cool, calm and connected without getting involved in a pointless argument
My proven 3 step strategy to resolve a potentially difficult situation and avoid being drawn into an argument – it’s as simple as 123!
The counter intuitive secrets about fulfilling relationships that just seem too good to be true – But they’re not!
And I’ll even show you how to get more of the love you want in less time than you could ever have imagined – not only is it possible, it’s easier to do it this way!
And that is only the beginning …
After you have experienced The Diamond Relationship Programme what once appeared dark and mysterious will become clear and easy!? You see The Diamond Relationship Programme is not a set piece of information about relationships that we work through on a weekly basis.? It is a personalised programme. It is specifically tailored to the particular needs of you and your partner.? It is an indepth, ongoing, exploration of the dynamics of your own particular relationship, which is then followed by consistent, intensive coaching to make the changes that you both would like to achieve and experience in your relationship.
Uncovering the dynamics of your relationship, (i.e. what’s working, what’s not)? is achieved in a very low key conversational manner.
Here are some of the questions that we might address as we explore your relationship dynamics :
How is your communication – is it respectful, caring, supportive, or is it at times, abrupt, critical, disrespectful or controlling?
Are you both happy with the level of intimacy in your relationship? Would either of you like something to be different?
How much empathy does there seem to be? Would you like to build that quality and experience greater levels of empathy?
It’s important to be able to take care of your personal needs, can you both do that in a way that also takes care of your relationship?
How well do you both do when trying to manage your anger? Is one of you concerned about your own or your partner’s anger?
Do you know how to stay calm in the face of provocative, angry behaviour?
Sex – are you both OK with your sexual relationship? Would you like it to be different in some way?
Do you feel respected? Does your partner know how you feel? Can you tell them? Do they listen?
Parenting – are you both on the same page? Could this be improved in some way?
Inlaws – how hard/easy are they to be around?
Are your individual personality styles able to flourish within the relationship? Or does one of you feel overly ignored or constrained?
These are just some of the points that we may explore as we go through the programme and as we identify areas where you might like things to change.
Then we continue, as part of that conversation to commence the process of coaching and analysis that facilitates and draws out the desired changes.?
My many years of working with couples to address these and other relationship issues has provided me with a vast array of coaching and change enhancing techniques.?Those many years of experience have also taught me that if couples really want to improve their relationship, then their determination, combined with perceptive, skilful coaching can ensure their success.
Right about now, if I were you, there would be one question on my mind…
How Much Does It Cost?
You’re smart. You looked around and you know that other Relationship Rejuvenation Programmes cost many thousands of dollars.
And I truly believe that by now you can see it would be worth whatever it takes to achieve the fulfilling relationship that you now know is possible.
In fact, I believe The Diamond Relationship Programme is worth a multiple of those other Programmes, if only because of the amount of specific, detailed, personal coaching you each receive.
Think about this
If the only benefit you received from participating in The Diamond Relationship Programme was an improvement in intimacy in your relationship, that would be worth what? $1000, $2000, maybe even $5000, but we all know that these are qualities way beyond any numbers of dollars. Yes?
If the only benefit was better communication in your relationship that would be worth what? An unfathomable amount. Yes?
If the only benefit was a better, healthier environment for your children to grow up in, that would be worth, what other incalculable amount? Yes?
If the only benefit was a fair sharing of household and childcare duties, that would be worth? Yes?
If the only benefit was to re-establish a level of caring, consideration and thoughtfulness that used to be there in your relationship, that would be worth? Yes?
The good news is that The Diamond Relationship Programme offers every single one of those things, and more!
But I’m not even going to think about suggesting you pay whatever incalculable amount they might all add up to.
I am offering the Diamond Relationship Programme, consisting of One Full Day of in person therapy, counselling and coaching, plus, up to 6 follow up personal skype support sessions spread over the following 3 months for only $2490.
The reason why it’s this inexpensive is simple:
- By providing the ongoing support programme via Skype some costs can be reduced, but most importantly after almost 30 years of helping couples to do their relationships better, seeing them enjoying each other more, seeing them doing their parenting more effectively, I just get an incredible level of satisfaction and fulfilment from this work.
Also at this stage in my life, where I have most of what I need, I am content if I only earn enough to be able to continue to travel and support couples to do their relationships better as I have been doing for these past many years.
At this point, I am unsure how long I will be in a position to offer the programme in this format or indeed, continue to offer the programme.
So, my suggestion is, talk with your partner, discuss the many benefits that are available to couples who participate in the programme and identify those benefits that would be?of particular importance to you and your partner.
The Diamond Relationship Programme is the most amazingly simple way to grow your relationship into the loving, caring, fulfilling experience that you could ever dream of.
Look, I’ve just realised there is one more thing I can add to this offer and I will do it here.
When you sign up for the programme, I will send you,
This best selling book:
“Getting The Love You Want”
It is written by Dr Harville Hendrix, Phd,
who has demonstrated his change making “Relationship Therapy”
on The Oprah Winfrey Show,
This book will ensure that you will always have easy access to the knowledge that will keep your relationship a Diamond Style Relationship. Plus:
- You’ll know exactly how to avoid the top 3 communication mistakes that can destroy your plans and dreams – and how to ensure that you never make those mistakes again.
- You get the lowdown on how to look after your relationship whilst still looking after yourself.
- You’ll learn the surprising secrets of how to get more of what you want and strengthen your relationship, by doing the total opposite of what most people think!
So, when you enrol in
The Diamond Relationship Programme today,
You receive; Totally Free,
“Getting The Love You Want” (a physical book, not an ebook).
Up to eight hours of in person transformational, relationship counselling and coaching.
Up to 6 follow up support sessions via skype spread over 3 months.
And a 100%, Money Back, Guarantee if after your initial experience, you decide the Programme is not for you!
I really do encourage you to order now and avail yourself of this no risk, no obligation opportunity.
Because of my many years of experience, I believe so strongly in the effectiveness of my work and the Diamond Relationship Programme that I am willing to effectively offer you what amounts to A FREE TRIAL.
Right now, you don’t even need to be totally sure, because IT’S RISK FREE.
You can always get your money back if, once you have experienced the first 3 hours, you feel that the programme does not suit you. I will give you your money back. A complete 100% refund. No probing, no pressure, just 100% money back. Guaranteed.
And, just as a way of saying thank you for trying The Diamond Relationship Programme, you would get to KEEP the book
“Getting The Love You Want”
I think you’ll agree, that’s a pretty solid offer as the book itself will enable you to:
- Continue to build empathy and develop trust.
- Know how to get more of the love you want.
- Avoid getting drawn into pointless arguments.
- Communicate in a way that builds rapport and connectedness.
So please take advantage of this wonderful, relationship enhancing offer.
Take the opportunity to live in the sort of relationship that you’ve dreamed of with absolutely no risk whatsoever.
It Is Decision Time
You’re standing at the crossroads.
Of the two roads before you, the one on the left is the road you’ve been traveling a lot… maybe kind of rough, uphill, rocky at times, with some pain and heartache.
On the right, the road less travelled. It’s smoother, it’s paved, and it’s proven time and time again, to be the easier, more loving, more caring, more fulfilling road to relationship happiness and connectedness.
Choose the right road. Let’s walk that road together.
P.S. Just think. One year from today, you will certainly “arrive”. The real question is… Where?
If you want to be somewhere different than where you are now, you’ll have to do something different than what you’re currently doing.
By participating in The Diamond Relationship Programme you will be taking the first step toward a different future.
Do enroll today and many blessings to you both.